This is like 75% of women I meet on first dates. Basically get the basic facts and then they trauma dump.
I don’t like it. It’s so weird. Way too many people are unwell and basically think dating someone will fix it… what they need is therapy and better life choices.
I agree with you, but maybe on the positive side consider maybe they feel comfortable enough with you to let things out. Assuming that they don’t do it with just anyone, in which case they really do need help. It is inappropriate to do in a first or even later dates, but people are holding things in and it doesn’t take much.
This is like 75% of women I meet on first dates. Basically get the basic facts and then they trauma dump.
I don’t like it. It’s so weird. Way too many people are unwell and basically think dating someone will fix it… what they need is therapy and better life choices.
I agree with you, but maybe on the positive side consider maybe they feel comfortable enough with you to let things out. Assuming that they don’t do it with just anyone, in which case they really do need help. It is inappropriate to do in a first or even later dates, but people are holding things in and it doesn’t take much.