• velma@sh.itjust.works
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          3 days ago

          Never said he did. I’m saying it’s probably better to bring up such a strong preference before clothes come off.

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            3 days ago

            It was a tongue-in-cheek comment about people who legitimately believe that a woman has been raped if she changes her mind during, but never relays that information to the man.

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                3 days ago

                You straight up said it’s not ok to tell a woman that you’re no longer interested in sex.

                Having sex when you don’t want to because you feel pressured into it is generally considered SA when it happens to a woman.

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                  Nothing wrong with talking about expectations prior to banging.

                  In theory - yes. But in practice it would be rude and / or ruining the moment.

                  Much more rude to tell a woman you don’t want to fuck her after she’s taken her clothes off.

                  Since reading comprehension has escaped you here - I said it’s more rude to share you won’t fuck hairy women after clothes are off. It is a better idea to be upfront about how you can’t get your dick hard unless a woman is hairless rather than share that after clothes have already come off.

                  I said absolutely fucking NOTHING about rape or forcing people to have sex they don’t want.