

well streamline the authorising. I would assume still the country (or countries) in which the weapon use takes place has the final authority. Since it still isn’t full on war. Some officer in command center from say Estonian airforce has to say “You have our national permission to release the live weapon into Estonian airspace”.
Ain’t gonna be any fighter pilot making that call unless it is literal self defence situation for the jet itself.
However given a century of military history, anyone signing up for US military service ought to expect high probability of dying in a very stupid war far away from home.
“Our client dictator is getting little too uppity” or one persons ego, stupid both.