Like a fart in the wind

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Cake day: January 27th, 2026

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  • Maybe I’m just naive but I personally no matter how little I know a person would “ghost” someone especially if there is some open thread.

    I don’t know the full context of your social situation or how your friends work. But given what little I know I’d just take this a learning experience and move on. I doubt in the long haul it will look bad on you. If anything look poorly on the other person.

    You seem like you care about relationships and people. Someone one better will certainly come along.

    Regardless, best of luck with everything.











  • When I was young I was bullied every single day. For the longest time It bothered me. Then one day something changed, I stopped caring. People would throw out insults and jokes and I just dissociate myself. I’d hear it and if it was at all funny I’d laugh. After about a month I was entirely left alone. Those people were never nice to me and never showed me respect. But the fact they got 0 rise at me meant they got bored.

    So I’d suggest to anyone to not take whatever personally and just shrug it off. Eventually in my experience it stops !

    I will say this may not work for everyone. And for some this may just escalate to even more horrible things. But it might be worth a shot ? And obviously change course if things go south …