• oozynozh@sh.itjust.works
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        2 days ago

        get your priorities knocked out before you start cuz you become a passenger in the metaphorical ride of life once you bring children onboard

        • Return_of_Chippy@lemmy.worldOP
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          Im in a good spot financially, mentally and physically. I own my property and home. Stable good income job, could support the household on my pay alone. But my girl also has a good gig. Athough we aren’t married. Really just nervous about being a kind of selfish person honestly.