Now I’m pushing back on your assertion that abuse is justified when there’s cheating. You leave the relationship, you don’t get permission to abuse your spouse.
If men have to resort to vigilantism in these situations, it leads to femicide. If I state that, how does that make me have fantasies about murdering women?
Men are capable of controlling themselves. Presenting this dichotomy that men have only two options - murder their wife or take her to court - is appalling.
I’m not justifying cheating.
what is your goal, what are you doing in this thread?
Now I’m pushing back on your assertion that abuse is justified when there’s cheating. You leave the relationship, you don’t get permission to abuse your spouse.
how do you leave the relationship while not being financially abused, which is abuse, if you are getting a divorce with no evidence of cheating?
He could’ve recorded plenty after the sex happened and still have proof without violating sexual consent.
yeah, sure.
Your fantasies about murdering women are going to catch up to you.
Hopefully before you actually harm someone.
what fantasies? How are you a feminist(?) and don’t understand that some places are putting laws about “femicide” to prevent that kind of murder?
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Femicide
If men have to resort to vigilantism in these situations, it leads to femicide. If I state that, how does that make me have fantasies about murdering women?
Men are capable of controlling themselves. Presenting this dichotomy that men have only two options - murder their wife or take her to court - is appalling.