I know this is gonna sound like the “Where exactly, so I can avoid it” meme, but I’m sincerely trying to avoid it.
I am pretty physically active, and get massage every six months or so. I have a massage therapist I usually go to, but every once in a while it’s an emergency and my go-to is booked up, so I get a sketchy strip mall massage.
About half the time it ends with a happy ending attempt. Not that I’m against the concept, but I refuse to pay for sexual contact on principle. Also that cuts into the time spent on the actual massage I came in for, and pressures me into a huge tip for something I don’t actually want.
At the same time, I don’t want to assume. It seems pretty rude to start off with “I know you’re gonna wanna give me a handjob but I’m not interested”. So is there some kind of standard “initiation” ritual that I can turn down when it comes up?
You’re simply going to have to say no when they go to do it if you dont want to assume. I had a family member who frequented these places until I got everyone to shame him. Theres no ritual or codeword. You just have to know the place gives them.
Why shame him?
Because I’m pretty sure two of them he went to the employees were trafficked.
Asian massage parlour? I’ve actually never heard of another kind of handy giving parlour. I don’t pay any attention to them though so idk.
Unfortunately they were all Vietnamese except for one. Which isn’t necessarily a problem but the way he described them it did not sound like consenting environments. Idk man I’m not against sex work but I was getting red flags from some of those descriptions. Maybe I’m biased and just imagining a sad handjob but Idk.