• ferrule@sh.itjust.works
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        1 day ago

        “She is just giving me a ride to/from work" was often the excuse if people saw ust together but honestly no one cared. The fact she WASN’T a teacher made it no big deal.

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          23 hours ago

          I mean, if it’s consensual and there’s no power imbalance it’s nobody’s business

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            16 hours ago

            That is the big issue, and I get it. I never felt weird, age wasn’t an issue. But I can also see where others could be taken advantage of.

            We ended up dating for 2 years and things ended due to life logistics. Was oddly the least crazy person I ever dated and we ended up friends after. Still bump into each other once in a while when I go back home to visit family.